When regaling to people the benefits of cruising, we tend to focus on the bang for your buck aspect. You know… how your accommodations, food and entertainment are all included? And you only have to unpack once is another great but *yawn* common one.
But one of the most marvelous components of a cruise vacation is that cruising is, and always has been, a breeding ground for social interaction. And guess what, that awesomeness is FREE!

People in their everyday lives may grunt hello, keep their head down and adamantly refuse to make any kind of unnecessary eye contact. But get them across a gangplank, onto a ship and they seem to strip the defenses and let themselves run rampant. People say hi and strike up a conversation with complete strangers, what a peculiar thing! One of the first questions to one another isn’t the mundane, “Hi, how are you?” Which in turn receives the usual response, “Fine.” But a “Where are you from?” Thus, sparking a real, connected conversation!
Everything about a cruise creates an environment for social connections and the development of lifelong friendships. You are disconnected from the technological world. The cruise lines charge a per-minute fee for internet usage (thank goodness!), and you don’t want to know the per-minute charge to use a telephone. But this makes people look up from a screen and into the face of life.
You all get to travel in style to some of the most beautiful destinations in the world. The whole ship can share together the awe and eagerness to see new cultures and natural wonders….or you know, maybe to try a frozen margarita at Senor Frogs. Whatever tickles your little cruising fancy. But I guarantee there will be other passengers who share your fancy that you will meet along the way.
And then there is dinner. Cruise lines now have the option for an ‘open seating’ arrangement, so that you dine whenever you wish and with whomever you wish. Be that by yourselves or with new friends. But many people still prefer the traditional dining option in which you are assigned a table, and table mates, and all have the same server each evening as well. It may seem odd at first, dining with completely foreign personalities, eek! But most times people leave with lifelong cruise buddies. If by chance, you are seated with someone who has green skin, antennas and razor sharp teeth-I might discreetly ask the maitre d’ if there is anywhere else you may be able to dine. Don’t fret, aliens are typically very rare. Usually your table mates are quite normal and again, can become great friends.
So to sum it up, if you want to be a grumpy old fart when you travel…maybe a cruise isn’t the best idea and staying at home would be better?
However, if you are a human being and crave new experiences in travel and life—cruise it up.
Go Explore. Go Sea.
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